Have you ever sat in a room, surrounded by
people, knowing that they’ll judge you if they ever found out your secret? Dakota
in The God Box by Alex Sanchez taught me that if you strongly believe in
something, regardless if what others say, you should express it and stand
behind it. Manuel is a new kid that arrives from Texas, and he’s been neglected
and ignored by many churches and people because he’s gay. He’s been called
“fag” and “queer” in the halls and at lunch, by exceedingly religious students.
When Dakota was in Bible group, she stood up for gays and supported them
throughout the discussion.
In chapter 5
(pages 22-27) there was a Bible group session going on. There was soon a
conversation about gays and who supported them. Dakota used both the bible and
common human rights to defend gays. For example, “Jesus loves us all.” “The
bible also states that Jesus was known for hanging out with outcasts and sinners.
“ Dakota then states that if Jesus is accepting all of us, what makes same-sex
couples different? Also, during school Manuel kept getting threats and excluded
from the students. Dakota would allow Manuel to sit with her at lunch without
questioning it, despite the strange looks and rumors going around. This is
important because Manuel is a new student who is comfortable with his sexuality
while Paul is still confused about his. If someone can accept gays, then Paul
can see how paranoid he was and come to grips with who he really is.
What I’m
really trying to say is if you are passionate about something and believe that
others should know about it, you shouldn’t feel bad for feeling the way that
you do. Dakota stood up for Manuel in bible group, and allowed him to sit with
her at lunch, regardless of what people were saying. Dakota is inspiring for
teens because of her strong character. Hopefully Paul can accept himself once
he realizes that people will accept him for being him, just like me friend. Going
back to the very first sentence, Paul doesn’t have to feel alone in a room
surrounded by people. He doesn’t have to feel ashamed of his secret of being
gay. He should embrace it with the people he loves. I have a friend who’s been
accused of being gay. People made fun of him and made him feel really bad about
himself. Although there’s some curiosity in me to know his sexuality, I want
him to know that there’s always going to be acceptance for him. Paul is still
in the denial stage, just like my friend- but if I can take the role as Dakota,
then maybe there wouldn’t be questions about social acceptance.
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